Monday, November 16, 2009
Do you ever wonder how things would of been?
Do you ever regret anything you have done?
Life has this nasty little habit of bringing up Hurt and pain from the past to the future.
Some of this caused by those around us, some by chance, but most of it is
brought upon us by our own selfish nature.
No matter how far away we go or how many times we tell ourselves we are ok,
that things will get better our choices cling to us like our shadow wherever we go.
Contradictory to what most people things A "new start" is not simply getting up and moving half way across the country because it is not a physical change, it is a change of the heart.
And changing the heart is hard. It takes time and God. We can not do it alone and we cannot fid the answers to all of lives question without God and the ones he send to help us along the way.
So, what about those we take for granted?
The ones we loved the most. The ones we will never be able to get back..
I believe for those of us who have had a hard time truly loving someone, when we do, we love them forever, we will always have a place for them in our hearts, because they will be partial owner.
They hold a part that we will never get back, and shouldn't want to.
I mean, we gave them that part of our heart for a reason, right? Because they are trustworthy, compassionate, accepting, loving, caring, respectful, and above all worth of that love?
There are so many reasons that people slip away, and even more reasons that we push them away. No matter if it is fear, hurt, confusion, or plain selfishness, we learn from our mistakes. We learn that once we find someone so special, we hold on even harder. And though we may never be able to have that same relationship with that person as we did before, we have learned to hold fast to what we DO have. Life is too short, every day we must be a living testimony that Love truly is the greatest of all gifts, In the words of the Beatles, All You Need Is Love....I think they got that one dead on!
So no matter where you are, where we are in our relationship at this moment, know there is hope. And Love truly is all you need.